"I recently had a 30 minute consultation with a woman trapped in her bathroom, terrified of being overheard talking to an attorney by her husband or children. She felt trapped and didn’t know what to do. In a secure, confidential discussion, I was able to help her develop a plan to gracefully and successfully exit the relationship and her situation, all without her having to say a word." Silva & Associates, Alameda Divorce Lawyers

Changing times call for different approaches. We pride ourselves on being able to think outside the box to help our clients navigate challenging times.
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Alameda Divorce Lawyers & Family Law

Silva & Associates, Alameda Divorce Lawyers, serves clients in the Bay Area of California, including Alameda, Oakland, San Francisco, Berkeley, Piedmont, Dublin/Pleasanton,  Walnut Creek, Danville, Orinda, and San Ramon.

Our Alameda Divorce Attorneys, Gregory Silva & his team, provide high quality representation in California Family Law including divorce, mediation, child custody, child/spousal support, pre-nuptial and settlement consultation.

Alameda Divorce Lawyers

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Full Service Professional Family Law Services in Alameda, CA

Practice Areas

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Dividing Assets

When substantial assets are involved, sometimes you need a team of experts to guide the process.
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Child Custody

Figuring out custody is never easy, but we can help you put a custody plan in place that provides support and structure.
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Child & Spousal Support

Both parents must support their children. We help set fair support & enforce orders if the other parent won’t comply.
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Pre-Divorce or Pre-Marital Planning

Developing a strategy is key to success. We can help you organize and position yourself before you file.
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Parental Rights

Where one party disputes that a child is theirs, we can make sure your rights as well as your children’s rights are protected.
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High-Conflict & Complex Divorce Litigation

Sometimes a parent can’t care for children or participate in divorce due to mental health issues.
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Mediation & Mediation Support

We can help make sure you understand your rights, your risks, and your exposure before you sign anything.
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Domestic Violence & Restraining Orders

If a partner is aggressive, harassing, or won’t let go, a restraining order can help protect your safety.
  • Dividing Assets

    When substantial assets are involved, sometimes you need a team of experts to guide the process.

  • Child Custody

    Figuring out custody is never easy, but we can help you put a custody plan in place that provides support and structure.

  • Child and Spousal Support

    Both parents have an obligation to support their children. We can help you figure out what support will look like, and how to enforce support orders when the other party doesn’t cooperate.

  • Divorce or Pre-Marital Planning

    Developing a strategy is key to success. We can help you organize and position yourself before you file.

  • Parental Rights

    Where one party disputes that a child is theirs, we can make sure your rights as well as your children’s rights are protected.

  • Guardianships/Conservatorships

    Sometimes the parents are not capable of taking care of children, or sometimes one party can’t participate in the divorce due to mental health issues.

  • Mediation Support

    We can help make sure you understand your rights, your risks, and your exposure before you sign anything.

  • Domestic Violence and Restraining Orders

    When one partner can’t move on, is aggressive, a bully, harassing or violent, a restraining order is one way to protect yourself

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Our Alameda Divorce Lawyers & Team

Gregory A. Silva
Managing Attorney

David Falik
Senior Associate Attorney

Maxine Choi
Associate Attorney




Frequently Asked Questions

FAQs Accordion
What makes a divorce case “complex” or “high-conflict”?
A divorce is considered complex or high-conflict when it involves contested custody, substantial assets, business ownership, or situations where one or both spouses struggle with mental health or controlling behavior. These cases often require courtroom litigation, expert testimony, and attorneys with extensive trial experience. At Silva & Associates, we have more than 45 years of experience handling complicated divorces across the Bay Area, giving our clients the guidance and protection they need in the most difficult situations.
How do I know if I need a lawyer for a high-conflict custody battle?
If your custody situation involves disputes over parenting time, allegations of domestic violence, or concerns about a parent’s ability to provide a safe environment, it’s critical to have a skilled custody lawyer. Our Alameda family law attorneys help clients develop structured custody plans, protect parental rights, and advocate aggressively in court when necessary.
Can Silva & Associates handle divorces involving significant assets or businesses?
Yes. Dividing assets such as real estate, retirement accounts, and closely held businesses can be one of the most complicated parts of divorce. Our team works with financial experts to ensure property is properly valued and divided fairly. We focus on protecting our clients’ long-term financial security while minimizing unnecessary conflict.
What should I do if I’m in a dangerous or abusive relationship but afraid to seek help?
Your safety is the top priority. We regularly assist clients in situations involving domestic violence or controlling partners. Our attorneys can help you obtain a restraining order, protect your children, and develop a secure plan to exit the relationship. All consultations are confidential, and we can discuss options discreetly to keep you safe.
How does mediation work in a complicated divorce?
Mediation can be an effective way to resolve disputes without trial, even in high-conflict situations. However, it’s important to enter mediation with a clear understanding of your rights and risks. At Silva & Associates, we prepare clients for mediation, review proposed agreements, and step in to litigate if negotiations break down.
Why choose Silva & Associates for a complex divorce case in Alameda County?
Not all family law attorneys have the skillset to handle high-conflict litigation. Our attorneys combine decades of trial experience with creative problem-solving, giving clients the confidence that their rights will be protected in and out of court. Whether your case involves child custody, spousal support, or the division of significant assets, we provide the knowledge and courtroom experience to help you reach closure.


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