When parents divorce, the ultimate goal is to raise children in a healthy, stable environment. But when conflict between ex-spouses remains high, traditional co-parenting can become nearly impossible. In these cases, parallel parenting may offer a more practical and less stressful alternative. Understanding the differences between the two approaches can help parents choose the best […]
Preparing for a Custody Battle Against a Manipulative Ex
Custody disputes are stressful under any circumstances, but the stakes rise dramatically when the other parent uses manipulation, intimidation, or deception to gain an advantage. These behaviors can distort the truth, influence the children, and complicate the legal process. Being prepared and knowing what to expect are essential to protecting your rights and your child’s […]
Narcissism & Gaslighting in Divorce & Family Law
Divorce is often an emotional and challenging process, but when one spouse exhibits narcissistic traits or uses gaslighting as a manipulation tactic, the legal and emotional toll can become significantly greater. In family law, understanding how these behaviors affect divorce proceedings, custody disputes, and settlement negotiations is essential. Narcissism and gaslighting not only impact the […]
Rebuilding Finances After Divorce: Tips for Starting Fresh
Divorce brings significant life changes, and for many, one of the biggest challenges is regaining financial stability. Whether you’ve lost a portion of household income, taken on new living expenses, or divided assets, the period after a divorce often requires careful planning and decisive action. Rebuilding your finances is not only about replacing what was […]
How Social Media Activity Can Affect Your Divorce Outcome
In this digital age, your online activity can impact your life in more ways than you may realize. When going through a divorce, what you post on platforms like Facebook, Instagram, X/Twitter, or even LinkedIn could be used as evidence in court. Understanding how social media can affect your divorce outcome is essential for protecting […]
Social Media as Evidence in Divorce and Custody Battles: Dos and Don’ts
Social media has become a central part of daily life, allowing people to share updates, connect with loved ones, and document personal experiences. However, in the context of divorce and custody battles, social media can also serve as a powerful form of evidence—sometimes to a person’s detriment. At Silva & Associates, we’ve seen firsthand how […]
How to Prove Mental Abuse in Court
Proving mental abuse in court can be a challenging yet crucial aspect of divorce proceedings. The emotional toll of such experiences can be overwhelming, making it essential for individuals to understand how to present their case effectively. This guide aims to provide practical advice on gathering evidence, understanding legal procedures, and presenting a compelling case […]
Mental Illness and Child Custody Claims: Strategies for Success
Child custody battles can be demanding for everyone involved, especially when mental illness is a part of the case. You might worry that your mental health condition could hurt your chances of getting custody of your child. Understanding how mental health and child custody are interconnected can help you feel more prepared and confident in […]
Strategies To Divorce-Proof Your Business In California
Traversing a divorce can be a difficult and emotionally draining process. When you own a business, the stakes are even higher. In California, community property laws can significantly impact your company, so understanding these laws is crucial to protect your business assets in the event of divorce. This article explores strategies to divorce-proof your […]
Child Custody Rights for Unmarried Parents in California
Who gets child custody if the parents are not married? In California, custody decisions for unmarried parents can be complex. Typically, unmarried mothers automatically get custody from the moment of the child’s birth. On the other hand, unmarried fathers must establish legal paternity to gain custody or visitation rights. Understanding the different types of […]